Securely Attached

← Securely Attached29. Sept. · 1 Std. 00 Min.

The neuroscience of resonance: How to use language to strengthen attachment with your child with Sarah Peyton

The neuroscience of resonance: How to use language to strengthen attachment with your child with Sarah Peyton29. Sept.1 Std. 00 Min.

Author, speaker, and neuroscience educator Sarah Peyton joins me to explore what happens when attachment theory, Nonviolent Communication, and the science of resonance come together.

Together we explore:

Why feeling understood is so important for your child's developing brain, nervous system, and sense of self.

The fascinating difference between empathy and resonance, and why that distinction matters in our relationships with our kids.

How your own attachment history can influence the way you respond when your child is upset, reactive, or pushing your buttons.

Why the same behavior from your child might barely bother you one day, and feel completely intolerable the next.

How Nonviolent Communication can help you look beneath your child's behavior and get curious about the feelings and needs driving it.

The surprising connection between secure attachment and independence, and why pushing children to become more independent can sometimes have the opposite effect.

How becoming more resonant with your child can begin to shift your own attachment patterns too.

Why changing the way you relate to your child doesn't happen overnight, but can profoundly change your relationship over time.

Whether you're trying to break patterns from your own childhood, understand why certain parenting moments feel so triggering, or simply want to feel more connected to your child, this conversation offers a fascinating new way to think about what it really means to feel seen, understood, and securely connected.

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