
← That's Orgasmic with Sexologist Emily Duncan5. Aug. · 18 Min.
186 What makes someone good at sex? (It's not experience)
Think being good at sex comes from having lots of experience? Think again.
In this episode, I'm breaking down one of the biggest myths about sex: that the more sex you have had, the better you'll be in bed.
The truth is, great sex has everything to do with communication, curiosity, connection, and a willingness to learn.
We'll explore:
• Why sexual experience doesn't automatically make someone a better lover
• The qualities that actually make someone a great sexual partner
• How communication can transform your sex life
• Why slowing down often leads to more pleasure
• The importance of connection and aftercare
• Why porn isn't sex education
• Evidence-based resources to help you learn about pleasure, even if you've never had sex before
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