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Avoidant Men Series: I Keep Finding Something Wrong With Her

Avoidant Men Series: I Keep Finding Something Wrong With Her27. Sept.17 Min.

Why do avoidant men get stuck in fault finding? If you have dismissive avoidant attachment you meet a good woman, then start flaw finding over how she texts, eats, laughs.

It's not standards. It's deactivation — fear spikes when she gets close, so you scan for faults to justify leaving.

In this Avoidant Men episode I break down why you do it, the damage to you and her, the wrinkles story that exposes what your criticism means, and 5 steps to stop binning women: reflect, name it, find the need, have the conversation, add praise.

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