Ep. 640: Even Masturbating Takes Too Much Work

Maybe it’s the trauma of betrayal, the changing of our hormones, or just general exhaustion, but sex is off the menu. We’ve seen enough non-contextual dicks and had our hearts broken enough time to last a life time. Opening up again sounds like way too much effort, and frankly, so does the act of masturbating. Maybe the next chapter of the Best Life looks more like the Nun Life. That’s fine by us.

Getting back on a routine after travel [3:45]

Our changing hormones [11:35]

A lowered libido [13:24]

Betrayal trauma and sex [16:53]

Non-contextual dicks [18:43]

Closing off to the possibility of getting hurt again [21:10]

The state of dating is exhausting [23:58]

Success on an app doesn’t make success in a relationship [29:33]

“Normal” masturbation [31:40]

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