The Dad Edge Podcast

← The Dad Edge Podcast24. Aug. · 1 Std. 03 Min.

Present Fatherhood That Always Beats Perfect Fatherhood featuring Randy Keith

Present Fatherhood That Always Beats Perfect Fatherhood featuring Randy Keith24. Aug.1 Std. 03 Min.

Officer Randy Keith is a military veteran, a 15-year law enforcement officer, and the founder of Present Father, a platform that now reaches hundreds of thousands of dads across the world. He didn't set out to build a movement. He built it from the darkest chapter of his life, a high-conflict divorce that put him through false allegations, an order of protection that nearly cost him his career, CPS interviews of his young children, and the terror of dropping his kids off not knowing if he'd get them back.

Randy walks Larry through the night it all began, why he chose 50-50 custody when his attorney said he could have won full custody, and the moment in his car around the corner from his ex-wife's house when he pulled out his phone and started talking, the post that became Present Father. This is a raw conversation about father's rights, staying present against enormous odds, and turning your mess into your message. It's also a heavy one, with an honest look at how many men in these situations reach the edge, and why community can be lifesaving.

Timeline Summary

[1:23] – The night his ex-wife went for the gun safe and he called 911

[4:34] – Declining to press charges because he didn't want to jail the mother of his kids

[5:48] – Discharged in hours after telling nurses he was abusing his power as an officer

[7:14] – Filing a Title 36 mental health petition and getting emergency custody

[9:01] – Choosing 50-50 so he could look his kids in the eye someday

[10:15] – His attorney saying he was in the driver's seat and could have full custody

[12:13] – Served with an order of protection built on false allegations

[13:09] – How a federal firearm statute nearly ended his law enforcement career

[14:38] – His kids interviewed by CPS at school without his knowledge