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Divorce Negotiations Stuck? 10 Ways to Move the Needle
🎧 Listen to this episode if…
- Your divorce negotiations have stalled and every message gets "no" or no reply at all
- Your ex keeps delaying and you can't work out why
- You're stuck arguing over percentages and getting nowhere
- Your ex is "sitting pretty" with no reason to settle
- You're wondering whether it's time to send that final warning letter
⚠️ Legal Disclaimer
This podcast is general information only it is not legal advice. Always consult a qualified family lawyer about your individual circumstances.
🛟 Family Violence Trigger Warning
This episode touches on coercive control and controlling ex-partners. If you're in danger, call 000. Confidential support: 1800 RESPECT (1800 737 732) or Lifeline (13 11 14).
Have your negotiations stalled? In this episode, Mum and I go through 10 practical ways to move the needle when your divorce feels completely stuck in three phases. First, the soften-and-unstick approach: diagnosing why your ex is stalling, repackaging your offer, getting off percentages, and showing them how the settlement will actually happen. Then smart pressure: keeping a live offer on the table, treating terrible offers as data, letting the law do the arguing, and making the maths impossible to ignore. And if none of that works, we show you how to make staying stuck expensive from spousal maintenance to the notice of intention to file, the warning letter Mum describes as "an unblocked drain" for stalled negotiations. No one stays stuck forever and we're here with you every step of the way.
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