
← The Divorce Planner30. Sept. · 16 Min.
Why Expecting Your Spouse to Change During Divorce Is Keeping You Stuck, And What to Do Instead
Why Expecting Your Spouse to Change During Divorce Is Keeping You Stuck, And What to Do Instead
The most damaging mistake I see people make during divorce isn't a legal or financial one. It's expecting their spouse to suddenly behave differently than they always have. And every time they don't, the shock and fury pulls you back into the same loop — one that can outlast your marriage by decades if you don't address it now. In this episode I'm sharing the concept of radical acceptance, specifically what it actually is, what it isn't, and why it's the only thing that genuinely gets you out...