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77. Myths about DID

77. Myths about DID8. Sept.17 Min.

In a preview of the upcoming webinar on Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID), on 17th September 2026, Dr. Caroline Lloyd dispels five common myths: that DID is rare, that it is dangerous, that it isn't real, that everyone has DID, and that therapy aims to eliminate alters through fusion.

Key Points:

1. Myth: DID is rare. In reality, DID affects an estimated 1–1.5% of the population worldwide, making it more common than schizophrenia (0.7%) and even more common than the proportion of people who are Australian (0.33% of world population).

2. Myth: DID is dangerous. Despite dramatized portrayals in TV shows and Netflix series, there is no evidence that people with DID are more violent or untrustworthy than anyone else. Most people with DID are simply doing their best to cope with life.

3. Myth: DID isn't real. DID is a genuine condition, supported by functional MRI studies showing real brain differences (particularly in the default mode network) between people with and without DID. Most people with DID actually hide their condition rather than seek attention. (Note: This is distinct from "Tulpamancy," an online subculture unrelated to the clinical diagnosis.)

4. Myth: Everyone has DID. This confuses the concept of having "parts" of oneself (as in IFS therapy) with having true dissociative alters. The key difference is dissociation—true alters lack communication/awareness of each other, whereas everyday "parts" are simply different moods or aspects of a single, continuous self-awareness.

5. Myth: Therapy aims to eliminate alters (fusion). The goal of therapy isn't to erase a person's different parts or "make them normal," but to help resolve the difficulties stemming from childhood trauma while respecting and preserving their personality structure, so clients can live functional, fulfilling lives aligned with their own goals.

Resources Mentioned:

• Upcoming webinar on Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) along with Dr Cate Bearsley-Smith

• EMDR Therapy for Trauma: If you're in Australia and want personalized support, Dr. Lloyd’s individual or group therapy sessions may be right for you.

• EMDR Doctor Membership: If you’ve worked with Dr. Lloyd before and need ongoing support, check out the EMDR Doctor Membership page for monthly opportunities to continue EMDR therapy.

• Consultation & Supervision: Book a supervision session with Dr. Lloyd.