
← The Jonnie Jensen Show23. Sept. · 57 Min.
Don't Be Nice, Be Respected feat. Danny M Goldberg
<p>You were raised to be the nice guy.</p><p>Nice gets you taken advantage of at work, at home and by your own kids. This isn't about being an arsehole. It's about being clear enough that people know you could be one.</p><p>Rebuilding after divorce, or just tired of being the pushover at home? I created the Lifestyle MOT to show you exactly where to start. 3 mins, 15 simple questions, and you get a personal review back from me: <a href="https://highvaluemanproject.com/score">https://highvaluemanproject.com/score</a></p><p>Danny M Goldberg has spent seventeen years training Fortune 500 companies and government agencies to have difficult conversations, and wrote <em>A Little Bit of A$$hole</em> after realising he'd lost his own voice at home. This one is for the man who says yes when he means no, explains every decision, and then wonders why he's not taken seriously by his partner, his team or his kids. Jonnie and Danny talk through divorce, dating again with your eyes open, and why nice men don't avoid the row, they postpone it until it blows.</p><p><strong>WHY THIS MATTERS</strong></p><p>The cost of nice builds up quietly. The boss who asks too much, the partner who stops seeing you as the man she fell for, the teenager who learns your no means "ask again later". This hour gives you the language to set the line early, before you end up drawing it in the middle of a blow-up.</p><p><strong>HIGH VALUE MOMENTS</strong></p><p>08:21 Getting divorced is awful. Being divorced is great.16:55 Why clarity in your fifties makes you more attractive, at home and in business21:17 "Be nice," they said. The bullies loved it.25:53 Set the expectation before you need the row29:09 Why second marriages repeat the first33:41 "Would you like to come up to this bar with me?"39:47 The 24-hour challenge44:14 Toxic people are toxic. Masculinity isn't.53:01 How to start something without betting the house</p><p><strong>CONNECT WITH DANNY M GOLDBERG</strong></p><p>Website: <a href="https://dannymgoldberg.com/">https://dannymgoldberg.com/</a>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/dannymgoldberg">https://www.linkedin.com/in/dannymgoldberg</a>A Little Bit of A$$hole: <a href="https://littlebitahole.com">https://littlebitahole.com</a>Other books: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Danny-Goldberg/e/B00LVAS23A">https://www.amazon.com/Danny-Goldberg/e/B00LVAS23A</a></p><p><strong>YOUR LIFESTYLE MOT</strong></p><p>Where are you being