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What RM of BTS' UN Speech Taught the World About Self-Love

What RM of BTS' UN Speech Taught the World About Self-Love10. Sept.19 Min.

<p>RM of BTS stood before the United Nations in 2018 and gave one of the greatest Self-Love speeches ever heard: speak yourself. But the moment that stopped me was one sentence, the one where he claimed the very label people used to dismiss him. Episode 93 of Self-Love Through Their Eyes goes inside the speech, the UNICEF Love Myself campaign that came a full year before it, and the story of a boy from a small town who stopped hearing his own voice, and found it again in front of the world. I was living in Hong Kong then, when BTS were the air we breathed, and this speech found me at the exact right time. We close with a practice to try this week with one person you love: one true thing, spoken in your own voice. </p><p><strong>In this episode, you&#39;ll learn:</strong></p><ul><li>Why &quot;idol&quot; was a put-down in K-pop, and what it meant that RM led with it at the United Nations</li><li>The UNICEF Love Myself campaign that came before the speech, and the one belief it was built on</li><li>What happened when a boy from Ilsan started seeing himself through other people&#39;s eyes, and how that story is ours too</li><li>Why he calls his faults and mistakes the brightest stars in the constellation of his life</li><li>The responsibility that comes with learning to love yourself, and why Self-Love was never meant to stay locked inside you</li><li>A simple practice to try this week with one person you love: one true thing, given freely</li></ul><p><strong>Resources Mentioned:</strong></p><ul><li>RM&#39;s full speech at the United Nations, official UNICEF video: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oTe4f-bBEKg">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oTe4f-bBEKg</a></li><li>Full speech transcript, from UNICEF: <a href="https://www.unicef.org/press-releases/we-have-learned-love-ourselves-so-now-i-urge-you-speak-yourself">https://www.unicef.org/press-releases/we-have-learned-love-ourselves-so-now-i-urge-you-speak-yourself</a></li><li>The LOVE MYSELF campaign, BTS x UNICEF: <a href="https://www.love-myself.org">https://www.love-myself.org</a></li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Connect with Lulu:</strong><br>Website: <a href="https://www.luluessey.com/">https://www.luluessey.com/</a><br>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lulu.essey/">https://www.instagram.com/lulu.essey/</a><br>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/lucille-marie-essey/">https://www.linkedin.com/in/lucille-marie-essey/</a><br>TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@lulu.essey">https://www.tiktok.com/@lulu.essey</a></p><p>This is an inside job. Please share this episode with people you love. And follow while you are here 💛</p>