244: Don't Wait Until Your Relationship Is in the ICU

What if the secret to lasting intimacy isn't one big romantic gesture—but intentionally choosing your relationship again and again?

Dr. Sonia and her partner have made a commitment to take 100 honeymoons over the course of their relationship. They're currently on number 16.

But a honeymoon doesn't have to mean Paris, Hawaii, or two weeks in the Maldives.

Sometimes it's one night away.

Sometimes it's a simple date.

What makes it a honeymoon isn't the destination.

It's the intention.

In this episode, Dr. Sonia shares the hilarious moment her partner informed her that their upcoming family vacation did not qualify as their next honeymoon—and why that conversation revealed something much bigger about relationships.

Intimacy rarely disappears overnight.

More often, it gets slowly deprioritized as children, careers, aging parents, responsibilities, and everyday life take over.

And then, years later, couples look at each other and wonder: Who are you? And how did we get here?

In This Episode, You'll Learn: