It's Not Him, It's You — You're Designed to Draw Him In

<p>Trigger alert: it's not him — it's you. (Well… not entirely you.). If you're aching for him to do the work and finally meet you emotionally — and you know what you've been doing isn't helping — Courtney and Mike go into the feminine's role in sacred relating.</p><p><br></p><p>They name the "if he changes, everything will be fine" shadow, the wall women yell over, and why mothering him kills polarity.</p><p><br></p><p>The invitation is a different seat: land in Me, know the little girl who's hypervigilantly managing him, and embody desire so he can actually feel it — consent before hard talks, fierce love, and delivery from the oracle (not accusation). This isn't another layer of self-blame. It's radical responsibility and freedom: do your part of the dance so the alchemy can come online.</p><p><br></p><p>Connect with us:</p><ul><li><p>Free: Bringing Your Oracle to Him → https://www.courtneywren.com/bring-your-oracle-to-him</p></li><li><p>The Initiated Man: https://www.itsmikeelliott.com/TIM</p></li><li><p>The 2:2 Couples Container: https://www.thesacredwe.com/2-2-container-details</p></li><li><p>Couples list: https://www.thesacredwe.com/thesacredwe</p></li><li><p>Courtney 1:1: https://www.courtneywren.com/containers</p></li><li><p>Mike coaching: https://www.itsmikeelliott.com/coaching</p></li></ul><p>Email:</p><p>transform@itsmikeelliott.com | relating@courtneywren.com</p><p>IG: @mikeelliott.relating | @courtneywren.relating</p>