Why Money Making Messages Don’t Move You The Way They Used To

%%first_name%%, if you’re anything like me, you used to light up when you heard how much money someone could help you make. That excitement used to move you to action. Now those same messages give you the ick,

The scariest part is not the ick itself. It is the question that came with it. What is wrong with me?

It sounds crazy because you still want wealth. You want to be financially secure. But you are repelled by the way you are being told to get it. That’s the contradiction that has you questioning everything, including yourself.

Here’s what is going on. You are no longer choosing coaches and strategies based on how much money they can help you make. You care about what it is going to cost you. Because Yes, you can help me make this money, but is it going to require me to miss my child’s school play. Yes, you can help me make this money, but is it going to take away my weekends with my family. Yes, you can help me make this money, but what will I have to sacrifice in my marriage to do it.

If the money requires you to constantly push through when you need to pause, if you cannot afford to step away for a month or two to handle your personal or family matters without everything crumbling, then that is not success. It is a profitable prison.

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I came to this after being in the hospital bed

When I was laying in that hospital bed, I did not think about my business. I did not think about how much money was in my bank account. I did not think about the accolades, the 100,000+ people in my community, the awards, the six-figure sales day, being on Steve Harvey or doing a TEDX. What I thought about was whether I would see my children graduate from college, whether I would be there for my glam princesses, and how my husband would function knowing his wife worked herself to death.

I refuse for my obittuary to read, “She worked herself to death.”

That’s why I rejected the system that required me to sacrifice myself for success. You should too because it was not designed for you.

The System Was Never Built for You to Win

The way we were taught to build wealth was never designed for us to build wealth. I am going to say that again. The way we were taught to build our businesses and make money and achieve success was never designed for us to build wea