113. Ask For Help

Why is it so hard for you to ask for help with the things that frustrate you?

In episode 113 of the Working Genius Podcast, Patrick Lencioni and Cody Thompson unpack why asking for help is one of the most practical and freeing applications of Working Genius. They explain how people often assume the work they hate must be miserable for everyone else, when in reality it may be exactly the kind of work that gives someone else joy and energy. Through examples from work, friendship, neighborhoods, and marriage, they show how naming your frustrations can reduce shame, build trust, and deepen connection.

Topics explored in this episode:

(00:00) Why Asking For Help Matters

Pat introduces the idea that people should not double down on work that drains them.Cody and Pat explain why “Ask For Help” may be simple, but it is a deeply important topic.

(03:52) One Person’s Frustration Is Another Person’s Party

Cody explains how people often assume that work that drains them must drain everyone else.Pat shares how asking someone for help can affirm their gifts rather than burden them.

(07:12) Connection, Vulnerability, And Working Genius

Pat connects Working Genius to the idea that people are meant to fill in each other’s gaps.Cody and Pat discuss how refusing to ask for help can keep others from feeling useful and valued.

(11:49) Asking For Help In Marriage

Pat explains how Working Genius can help spouses understand each other instead of misreading each other.Cody shares how his wife’s tenacity helped relieve stress around family finances.

(15:28) Shame, Weakness, And Practical Next Steps