
← UNCHARTED24. Sept. · 42 Min.
The Skill Most Men Are Missing (And Don't Know It)
<p>Most men were never taught how to identify what they're actually feeling — and that gap shows up everywhere: in your marriage, your friendships, your faith, and your ability to lead. In this episode, counselor and addiction specialist Jesse Bailey breaks down emotional awareness, attachment styles, and the real check engine lights most of us ignore or don't even recognize. </p><p><br></p><p>Honest, practical, and grounded in faith, Jesse teaches us that emotional awareness isn't weakness or navel-gazing but instead a foundational skill that determines how well you show up. This conversation is worth sitting with.</p><p><br></p><p>👉 Listen and learn that emotional awareness isn't weakness or navel-gazing.</p><p>🎧 Also available on Spotify & Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.</p><p>📺 Check us out on YouTube:: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLj0hpGD_gyDnkxnv9EuCZ9dCx7znE6cXq" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Video Podcast</a> </p><p><br></p><p>As always, shoot us your questions at <a href="mailto:men@missionhills.org" rel="nofollow">men@missionhills.org</a> and enjoy today's episode.</p><p><br></p><p>=============================</p><p>Reflection Questions:</p><p>=============================</p><p>✅ When someone asks how you're doing, what's the honest answer beneath the one you usually give — and what might that gap be telling you?</p><p>✅ Matt shares that he carried an emotion card in his wallet to name what he was actually feeling. What's one small, specific thing you could do this week to get more honest with yourself about your emotional state?</p><p>✅ Jesse describes secure attachment as feeling safe, valued, and understood. When was the last time you felt that in a relationship — and what made it possible?</p><p><br></p><p>=============================</p><p>Uncharted: Channel Credits</p><p>=============================</p><p>🎙️ HOST:: Matt Winter, Drew Tarwater</p><p>🎉 SPECIAL GUESTS:: Jesse Bailey</p><p>🎥 VIDEO + SEO DIRECTORS:: Zac Anderson, Colin McFarland</p><p>🎨 CREATIVE DIRECTOR:: Colin McFarland</p><p><br></p><p>A Product of Lepard Productions + The Mission Hills Podcast Network in Littleton, CO.</p><p>© Mission Hills Church - All Rights Reserved</p>