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What Will Be in the Slideshow at Your Funeral? | Richard G. Riccardi

What Will Be in the Slideshow at Your Funeral? | Richard G. Riccardi8 Aug51 min

<p>What will be in the slideshow at your funeral?</p><p>Richard G. Riccardi joins me for a conversation about fatherhood, faith, family, work, and what remains when the career eventually ends.</p><p>Richard spent years building businesses and chasing professional goals. Now, as a grandfather looking back, he offers a perspective every father in the thick of raising kids and building a career needs to hear.</p><p>We talk about:</p><p>• Why financial provision can’t replace your presence<br />• The years fathers can easily lose while building a career<br />• Letting your kids fail and learn safely<br />• Showing your children that Dad can be wrong<br />• Making decisions without having perfect information<br />• Why I prefer harmony over “work-life balance”<br />• Generational wealth, saving, and family legacy<br />• Faith and finding real community with other men<br />• Starting small instead of waiting for the perfect time<br />• Why fathers need to shut out the noise and trust themselves</p><p>One of Richard’s questions stayed with me after we finished recording:</p><p>What will be in the slideshow at your funeral?</p><p>Because eventually the titles, accomplishments, and work go away. The people you loved and the life you shared with them remain.</p><p>Connect with Richard G. Riccardi:<br /><a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://richardgriccardi.com/" target="_blank">https://richardgriccardi.com/</a></p><p>Richard is the author of The Wandering Worshipper, available through his website and major book retailers.</p><p>MORE FROM 4 FIT FATHERHOOD</p><p>Resources &amp; Coaching:<br /><a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://stan.store/4fitfatherhood" target="_blank">https://stan.store/4fitfatherhood</a></p><p>Baseline Performance:<br /><a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://www.baselineperformancenow.com/" target="_blank">http://www.baselineperformancenow.com/</a></p><p>Save on ZZZ Tape:<br /><a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://zzztape.com/discount/4fitfatherhood?ref=qmhrgitu" target="_blank">https://zzztape.com/discount/4fitfatherhood?ref=qmhrgitu</a></p><p>Richard shares personal observations about estate planning and money based on his experience. This episode is educational and does not provide individualized legal or financial advice.</p><p>#Fatherhood #PresentFather #4FitFatherhood</p><p>00:00 Intro</p><p>00:41 Open heart, open mind in fatherhood</p><p>02:59 Why kids need to fail sometimes</p><p>04:00 Letting your children see Dad be wrong</p><p>06:08 Making decisions without certainty</p><p>09:07 What happens when your career ends</p><p>12:20 Provision vs. presence</p><p>16:21 You’ll never regret time with your family</p><p>18:09 Stop chasing perfect balance</p><p>21:48 Generational wealth and family legacy</p><p>28:42 Faith, church, and starting where you are</p><p>31:34 Stop waiting for the perfect time</p><p>37:32 Why men need faith and community</p><p>39:03 You have to be present to win</p><p>45:24 Shut out the noise and trust yourself</p><p>49:21 How to connect with Richard</p>