Live Like a Moodboard (In Real Life) ft Lwandile ''The Fruity Chapters'' Makhaza

<p><br /></p><p>This episode of According to B is brought to you in partnership with Bernini- South Africa’s only real spritzer made from wine.</p><p>The internet loves an It Girl-but what if the real flex is becoming the It Girl of your own life?</p><p>In this episode, I’m joined by fashion, travel, and lifestyle creator Lwandile Makhaza popularly known as (The Fruity Chapters) to reclaim the It Girl from the algorithm and bring her back home.</p><p>We unpack:</p><ul><li><p>Style, taste, and intentional living</p></li><li><p>Health, routines, and discipline with softness</p></li><li><p>Confidence, visibility, and protecting your peace</p></li><li><p>Career, creativity, and defining success on your own terms</p></li></ul><p>This isn’t about aesthetics - it’s about authorship.</p><p>Subscribe to The B Word here:<a href="https://www.youtube.com/c/TheBWord?su.." rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> https://www.youtube.com/c/TheBWord?su..</a>. </p><p><br /></p><p>✰ MEET OUR CO-HOST ✰</p><p>Lwandile</p><p>Lwandile Makhaza, widely known as The Fruity Chapters, is a South African lifestyle and fashion content creator, storyteller, and creative entrepreneur who has cultivated a distinctive voice in digital culture. Through a refined yet deeply personal lens, she shares reflections on style, self-trust, discipline, and what it means to intentionally curate a life that feels aligned rather than performative.</p><p>With an eye for aesthetics and a commitment to authenticity, Lwandile has built a community that resonates with her thoughtful approach to presence, confidence, and self-authorship. Her platform is not just about fashion or lifestyle-it’s about becoming. Becoming more grounded. More self-aware. More deliberate about the life you are building.</p><p><br /></p><p>✰ TIMESTAMPS✰</p><p><br /></p><p>00:00- Intro</p><p>01:19- About the conversation</p><p>02:27- Meet Lwandile</p><p>04:51- Game: Toast or Ghost</p><p>11:00- What an IT girl is to Lwandile &amp; Bokang</p><p>14:23- Lwandile on how she deals with self-doubt</p><p>15:44- How Lwandile overcomes the fear of doing</p><p>16:31- Where Lwandile draws her inspiration from</p><p>20:13- What Lwandile's current style says about the season she is in</p><p>22:40- Biggest difference between pre 25 Lwandile and post 25 Lwandile</p><p>24:38- What pushed Lwandile to prioritize her health</p><p>32:22- Lwandile on being big on experiences</p><p>40:42- Career growth and success for Lwandile</p><p>45:48- How Lwandile deals with boundaries with work</p><p>48:25- The one way Lwandile is committing to showing up for herself in 2026 </p><p>50:53- Lwandile receives her Breathe It In gift box </p><p>51:31- Outro</p><p><br /></p><p>✰ SOCIAL MEDIA ✰</p><p>Bokang</p><p>➜ Instagram: @sheisbokang-<a href="https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&amp;redir_token=QUFFLUhqbmw0cTZ0bUI0SFZYb0cxUHYzY0FQSWhfOTczZ3xBQ3Jtc0ttX3lESURza05mMTZUMEduTmJGWWpzbnlrN1NnUElGZjhwZ1Z5OE5Pd2JmY1dVaDZFLXg3RENZRzNkREpjMkRpSWJuT3B0WDhoRzhoUy0tbWJsZHBUSFhSZDhQTVJCTm85b1k3UjJXQlAwMnNvTl93TQ&amp;q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fsheisbokang&amp;v=xNxuB1lsccY" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">  / </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/sheisbokang" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/sheisbokang</a><a href="https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&amp;redir_token=QUFFLUhqbmw0cTZ0bUI0SFZYb0cxUHYzY0FQSWhfOTczZ3xBQ3Jtc0ttX3lESURza05mMTZUMEduTmJGWWpzbnlrN1NnUElGZjhwZ1Z5OE5Pd2JmY1dVaDZFLXg3RENZRzNkREpjMkRpSWJuT3B0WDhoRzhoUy0tbWJsZHBUSFhSZDhQTVJCTm85b1k3UjJXQlAwMnNvTl93TQ&amp;q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fsheisbokang&amp;v=xNxuB1lsccY" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">  </a> </p><p>➜ Tik Tok:@sheisbokang-<a href="https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&amp;redir_token=QUFFLUhqbURxS3BUNEhRNW83aHhFaU5reGtfSDJMMVhkQXxBQ3Jtc0tseVhQUEw5VVktelk5MDRzd25xUGY2WjZnQ0tEQVVOUGZMeml6dDNoWE1mNUZZYW1jd3RiSnhrRlgzZ2gxZTdvNllRTGd