Friendship Breakups, Comparison & Choosing Each Other with Landzy Gama & ZeeXOnline

<p><br /></p><p>This episode of According to B is brought to you in partnership with Bernini- the sparkling spritzer born from real wine. </p><p>We live in a world that quietly teaches women to compete - over beauty, success, relationships, and even friendships. And sometimes, without realising it, that pressure seeps into the very relationships meant to hold us.</p><p><br /></p><p>In this episode of According to B, we’re choosing something different.</p><p><br /></p><p>I’m joined by best friends and Because We Said So podcast co-hosts Landzy Gama and Zama Marubelela (ZeeXOnline) for a deeply honest conversation about female friendship as refuge, grounding, and one of adulthood’s greatest love stories.</p><p>Together, we unpack:</p><ul><li><p>How comparison and competition show up in women’s friendships</p></li><li><p>What female friendship teaches us about love and becoming</p></li><li><p>Navigating friendship breakups without villains</p></li><li><p>Why our friends often become the true witnesses to our lives</p></li></ul><p>This conversation is an invitation to slow down, soften, and savour the relationships that let us be messy, honest, and fully ourselves.</p><p>Subscribe to The B Word here:<a href="https://www.youtube.com/c/TheBWord?su.." rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> https://www.youtube.com/c/TheBWord?su..</a>. </p><p><br /></p><p>✰ MEET OUR CO-HOSTS ✰</p><p>Zama &amp; Landzy</p><p>Landzy Gama and Zama Marubelele are best friends, Youtubers, content creators and the co-hosts of the podcast Because We Said So- a space beloved for its deeply relatable conversations about girlhood, friendship, love, and becoming. Known for their honesty, humour, and emotional openness, they’ve built a platform that feels like a safe place to land for women navigating adulthood in real time.</p><p>What truly sets Landzy and Zama apart is the bond they share and the way they show up for each other- with softness, accountability, and care. Through their work, they remind women that friendship can be grounding, expansive, and life-shaping, and that choosing each other in a world that encourages comparison is a powerful act. Their journey reflects the beauty of growing together, speaking openly, and allowing friendship to be one of life’s greatest love stories.</p><p><br /></p><p>✰ TIMESTAMPS✰</p><p>00:00- Coming up</p><p>01:21- About the conversation</p><p>02:48- Meet Landzy &amp; Zama</p><p>04:10- Landzy &amp; Zama on vlogging vs podcasting</p><p>06:30- Game: Toast or Ghost</p><p>13:09- Landzy &amp; Zama: The advice queens</p><p>13:59- Dilemma 1</p><p>23:52- Dilemma 2</p><p>27:51- What the end of a friendship has taught Landzy &amp; Zama</p><p>31:55- What Landzy &amp; Zama have learnt about themselves from each other</p><p>34:06- What friendship has given Landzy &amp; Zama that romantic relationship hasn't</p><p>37:06- Advise to the girls that have experienced friendship hurt</p><p>39:54- Gifting Landzy &amp; Zama their Breathe It In boxes</p><p>40:51- Outro</p><p><br /></p><p>✰ SOCIAL MEDIA ✰</p><p>Bokang</p><p>➜ Instagram: @sheisbokang-<a href="https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&amp;redir_token=QUFFLUhqbmw0cTZ0bUI0SFZYb0cxUHYzY0FQSWhfOTczZ3xBQ3Jtc0ttX3lESURza05mMTZUMEduTmJGWWpzbnlrN1NnUElGZjhwZ1Z5OE5Pd2JmY1dVaDZFLXg3RENZRzNkREpjMkRpSWJuT3B0WDhoRzhoUy0tbWJsZHBUSFhSZDhQTVJCTm85b1k3UjJXQlAwMnNvTl93TQ&amp;q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fsheisbokang&amp;v=xNxuB1lsccY" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">  / sheisbokang  </a> </p><p>➜ Tik Tok:@sheisbokang-<a href="https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&amp;redir_token=QUFFLUhqbURxS3BUNEhRNW83aHhFaU5reGtfSDJMMVhkQXxBQ3Jtc0tseVhQUEw5VVktelk5MDRzd25xUGY2WjZnQ0tEQVVOUGZMeml6dDNoWE1mNUZZYW1jd3RiSnhrRlgzZ2gxZTdvNllRTGdMRU1vUUx0enVJMmg2S2dCTVBvMF8xMTZNQVR5ZXZrelNjcUMwNGd6akRVVQ&amp;q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.tiktok.com%2F%40sheisbokang&amp;v=xNxuB1lsccY" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">  / sheisbokang  </a> </p><p> </p><p>The