
← Brain First Parenting with Eileen Devine18 May · 19 min
Ep. 42 | 8 Essential Mind Shifts for More Connected Parenting
<p>SUMMARY - <span style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">In this episode, Eileen shares 8 essential mind shifts that help parents move from a behavioral lens to a Brain First lens when parenting children with brain-based differences and challenging behaviors. These shifts can help you better understand your child’s nervous system, reduce conflict, strengthen connection, and parent with more clarity, flexibility, and confidence.</span></p><p><br></p><p>TAKEAWAYS:</p><ul><li>Why “My child would do better if they could” is one of the most transformative parenting shifts</li><li>How challenging behaviors are often signs of distress, overwhelm, and lagging skills</li><li>Why behavior-focused parenting approaches often miss the root causes</li><li>How adjusting expectations around development can reduce frustration for both you and your child</li><li>The importance of meeting cognitive rigidity with flexibility and empathy</li><li>Why the goal of parenting is not compliance, but connection, regulation, and skill-building</li><li>How to trust your own understanding of your child, even when others don’t understand your approach</li><li>Why caring for yourself is an essential part of supporting your child’s well-being</li></ul><p><br></p><p>RESOURCES:</p><p>Free downloadable infographic: <a href="https://subscribepage.io/8mindshifts" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>8 Essential Mind Shifts for More Connected Parenting</em></a></p><p>Episode 19: <em>Rethinking What It Means to Be Resilient</em></p><p></p><p>=======================</p><p>If you appreciated this episode, and would like to receive a <strong>weekly note</strong> from Eileen <span style="background-color: rgb(250, 251, 255);">about the Brain First Parenting journey</span> every Monday, you can subscribe to her free newsletter <a href="https://subscribepage.io/weeklynote" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">HERE</a>!</p><p><br></p><p>You can also check out all the <a href="https://linktr.ee/eileendevine" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">FREE resources</a> Eileen offers for parents, and learn more about all things Brain First at her website: <a href="https://www.eileendevine.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">eileendevine.com</a></p><p><br></p><p>And of course, find and follow Eileen on social media:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/EileenDevineBrainFirstParenting" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/eileen.devine_brain.first/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a></p><p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/@EileenDevine" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">YouTube</a></p><p><a href="https://www.pinterest.com/brainfirstparenting/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Pinterest</a></p>