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Imagine If Dating Was Fun...

Imagine If Dating Was Fun...5 Sept17 min

<p>If you’ve spent years trying to figure out how to find love, there’s a good chance you’ve also consumed a LOT of dating advice.</p><p><br></p><p>Which dating app should you use? </p><p>Should you message first?</p><p>How do you get past the talking stage?</p><p>How do you get a man to actually ask you out?</p><p>Should you be more in your feminine energy, less anxiously attached, play it cool, stop trying so hard?</p><p>How do you "put yourself out there" more than you are already??</p><p><br></p><p>And yet despite doing all the “right” things, finding the relationship you want still feels ridiculously hard.</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode of <strong>Find Love With Emily</strong>, you'll see exactly why typical dating advice is isn't what you want to be listening to AT ALL, if you genuinely want real, lasting love. </p><p><br></p><p>It's actually what's been keeping you single. </p><p><br></p><p>The recent experience of one of the women inside Attract YOUR Man illustrates this perfectly...</p><p><br></p><p>Five weeks ago, she was utterly disheartened by dating, struggling to get past the talking stage and on a real date and it felt like it was just problem after problem she needed to somehow solve on her own. </p><p><br></p><p>Now...</p><p><br></p><p>She's talking to 5 men, has 2 dates planned and in her own words dating is "SO MUCH FUN!!"</p><p><br></p><p>This wasn't because her luck changed, she found some new manipulative dating strategy, or rewrote her dating profile for the 75th time. </p><p><br></p><p>Something much more fundamental changed and dating got easier. </p><p><br></p><p>If you’re tired of dating advice, dating apps, situationships and constantly wondering what you’re doing wrong, hit play and listen to this episode now. </p><p><br></p><p>You'll see: </p><p><br></p><ul><li>Why more of the usual dating advice isn't the answer </li><li>What happens when you stop trying to “get dating right”</li><li>Why finding love and being good at dating are not the same thing</li><li>How to take the pressure out of dating</li><li>What makes dating (legit) fun!</li><li>What to focus on when what you actually want isn’t to be good at dating, it's love. </li></ul><p><br></p><p>🎧 Episodes to listen to next:</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/78bMIcRdCvNViIa4QrOy5e?si=Ll6B4Jf3QWCjdYFO-QOIOA" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Love Is Simpler Than You Think - Here's What's Been Missing</a></p><p><a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/3IwgY4BVnSmSHCZCqYywl3?si=76e1yuJqRg2hubfUpDY34g" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Self-Assessment: Your Blocks To Love | PART 1</a></p><p><a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/4KD5V9ovDgWxel7114TeJC?si=cbDlS0dYSH2H2tCAp9NTlw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Self-Assessment: Your Blocks To Love | PART 2</a></p><p><a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/4jh1GkAhyi6LJE8QFxsyeL?si=NiXUaw1jRlugzioOY3jBdg" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Uncomfortable Truth About Following The One Rule Love Does </a></p><p></p><p><br></p><p>👩‍❤️‍👨<strong> Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love:</strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong style="color: rgb(238, 119, 238);">ATTRACT YOUR MAN</strong></p><p><br></p><p>Join Attract YOUR Man here: <a href="https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man</a></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>You'll also find me on Instagram<span style="background-color: rgb(250, 251, 255);"> </span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/findlovewithemily" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: rgb(250, 251, 255);">@findlovewithemily</a></p>