our 50th episode: what a year taught us, initiating in relationships & the fear of being seen | episode 50

<p>It&#39;s our 50th episode and the week after our one year anniversary, so we&#39;re taking some time to look back on the year that was. We talk about our favourite moments, what we&#39;ve learnt, and how we&#39;ve each changed along the way. Meg opens up about her fear of being seen, which launches us into a bigger conversation about why so many women are afraid of initiating in relationships and where that hesitation actually comes from.</p><p><br></p><p>We get into how someone can be deeply spiritual and still wrestle with insecurities, like tying self worth to appearance, and why those two things aren&#39;t as contradictory as they seem. It&#39;s a reflective, honest episode about growth, visibility, and the parts of ourselves we&#39;re still learning to accept. It&#39;s also a bittersweet one, as it&#39;s the final episode with Erica&#39;s dog Raffy by her side.</p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>🎙️ Fingers Crossed is a female friendship podcast with honest chats about mental health and life, hosted by Erica and Megs.</p><p><br></p><p>📩 email us your thoughts: <a href="mailto:fingerscrossedthepodcast@gmail.com"><strong>fingerscrossedthepodcast@gmail.com</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>chapters:</p><p>00:00 intro</p><p>01:07 raffy update</p><p>04:42 our favourite moments</p><p>07:56 avoidants laughter coping mechanism</p><p>09:45 fear of being seen</p><p>27:20 3 things we’ve learnt in the past year</p><p>46:30 how we’ve changed</p><p>58:44 outro</p>