What Belief Did I Have to Change to Save My Marriage?

<p>You can provide. You can lead. You can keep your word. You can do everything you think a “good husband” is supposed to do…</p><p>And still be the reason your marriage is falling apart.</p><p>That was one of the hardest things I had to accept.</p><p>I got to a place where I could point at everything I was doing right and everything Jessie was doing wrong. My side of the street was clean. I was showing up. So somewhere along the way, I started believing she owed me something for it.</p><p>More appreciation. More affection. More sex. More desire.</p><p>And that belief was fucking killing my marriage.</p><p>Because the moment you believe your wife owes you something because of everything you do for her, you stop loving her and start keeping score. Your marriage becomes a transaction.</p><p>In this Q&amp;A episode, I break down one of the biggest beliefs I’ve had to destroy in myself—and why every time I find myself convinced that Jessie is the problem, I’ve learned to look in the fucking mirror.</p><p>Your wife may have shit she needs to work on.</p><p>But if your marriage is dying while you’re standing there screaming about everything you’re doing right, you might be missing the one thing you actually have the power to change:</p><p><strong>You.</strong></p><p>This one might piss you off.</p><p>Good.</p><p>Watch <strong>“What Belief Did I Have to Change to Save My Marriage?”</strong></p>