← Office Hours with Arthur Brooks17 Aug · 49 min
Success Secret: Finding People Who Disagree With You
<p>Most of us prefer spending time with people who are like us. They think like us, share our values, and make us feel comfortable. But while similarity may be easy, it isn't always what helps us grow.</p><p>In this episode of <em>Office Hours</em>, I explain why some of the greatest benefits in life come from building relationships with people who think, believe, and live differently from us. I explore the science behind why diversity of thought can make us wiser and more successful, and share three practical ways to bring more variety of opinions and values into your life. </p><p>And if you want to get better at disagreeing better, check out one of my <a href="https://www.arthurbrooks.com/podcast/4-ways-to-love-the-people-you-disagree-with" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">earlier episodes</a> on loving your “enemies.”</p><p>—</p><p><strong>Brought to you by:</strong></p><p><strong>• </strong><a href="http://drinklmnt.com/Arthur" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer"><strong>LMNT</strong></a>—A science-backed electrolyte drink mix that helps you feel and perform your best, without sugar, artificial ingredients, or gimmicks. Get a free sample pack at <a href="http://drinklmnt.com/Arthur" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">DrinkLMNT.com/Arthur</a></p><p>• <a href="https://magicmind.com/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer"><strong>Magic Mind</strong></a>—Magic Mind is a mental performance shot with vitamins and clinically backed ingredients like Ashwagandha and Lion’s Mane for a sharper mind and sustained energy. Get 50% off your first order at <a href="http://magicmind.com/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">magicmind.com</a> </p><p><a href="http://drinklmnt.com/Arthur" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer"></a>—</p><p><strong>Where to find Arthur Brooks: </strong></p><p>• Website: <a href="https://arthurbrooks.com/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://arthurbrooks.com/</a></p><p>• In-person Retreats: <a href="https://retreats.arthurbrooks.com/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://retreats.arthurbrooks.com/</a> </p><p>• Newsletter: <a href="https://www.arthurbrooks.com/newsletter" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://www.arthurbrooks.com/newsletter</a> </p><p>• X: <a href="https://x.com/arthurbrooks" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://x.com/arthurbrooks</a></p><p>• Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/arthurcbrooks/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://www.instagram.com/arthurcbrooks/</a></p><p>• Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/ArthurBrooks/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://www.facebook.com/ArthurBrooks/</a></p><p>• YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGuyFRjJQFGCKzfHTBvWM6A" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGuyFRjJQFGCKzfHTBvWM6A</a></p><p>• LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/arthur-c-brooks/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://www.linkedin.com/in/arthur-c-brooks/</a></p><p>• Email: <a href="mailto:officehours@arthurbrooks.com" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">officehours@arthurbrooks.com</a></p><p>—</p><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><p>(00:00) Intro</p><p>(06:48) Bonding vs. bridging social capital</
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