E275: Reasonable or Ridiculous? Sex Quotas, Oral Every Time, and Dirty Talk Dealbreakers

It's time for another round of Reasonable or Ridiculous, where we take real life couple disagreements our community members just can't settle and play referee.

In this episode, you'll hear:

Can you ask your partner to start initiating again after you spent years shutting them down?

A monthly quota for sex: reasonable or red flag?

Oral every single time: too much to ask or not a big deal?

The blowjob stereotype most women believe, and what men actually told us in our foreplay survey

Asking your partner to stop saying a word that gives you the ick, without shutting down the dirty talk entirely

How to admit you've hated something in bed for years without making your partner feel terrible

Is waking your partner up because you can't sleep crossing a line?

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