Ep 74: Why the Unfaithful & Betrayed Both Miss Each Other's Needs with Michael Webb

You keep trying to do everything right.

But nothing seems to get through.

The betrayed feels invisible. Unheard. Like their pain doesn't matter.

The unfaithful feels attacked. Misunderstood. Like they're being punished forever.

And the distance between them grows.

What if the problem isn't that one of you is wrong? What if you're both responding to something so deeply rooted that you don't even know it's there?

In this episode, Michael Webb—a therapist with 30 years of experience—breaks down the processing bias. He reveals how your childhood literally trained you to look for betrayal, abandonment, and danger. And why, no matter how hard you try, that part of you is still running the

show in your marriage.

Whether you're the betrayed or the unfaithful, this conversation will change how you understand what's actually happening. It's not about blame. It's about understanding. And understanding is where healing begins.

In this episode, we talk about:

◾ What processing bias is and how your childhood created yours

◾ Why you were trained to look for betrayal—even when it's not there