Ep #63 From Self-Abandonment to Self-Trust: How to Break the Unavailable Love Pattern After 40

<p>You already know you keep choosing unavailable men. What you might not know yet is why.<br></p><p>My guest this week, Pi Venus Winslow, spent years chasing connections that left her with a broken heart and no real answers. What she eventually figured out stopped her cold: the problem wasn&#39;t the men. It was a pattern of self-abandonment so deeply wired in that it felt completely normal. Familiar, even.</p><p><br></p><p>If you&#39;re dating after 40 and you&#39;re exhausted from carrying the emotional weight of relationships that never quite work, this conversation is going to land somewhere important.</p><p><br></p><p>About Pi Venus Winslow: Pi Venus Winslow is a published author, speaker, and transformational coach who helps adults heal from a narcissistic upbringing and codependency. After a lifetime of navigating the effects of a malignant narcissistic parent, Pi transformed her own patterns of self-doubt and self-abandonment. She now guides others to break free from those same cycles, rebuild self-trust, and create healthier, more aligned relationships.</p><p><br></p><p>What&#39;s Inside This Episode:</p><ul><li>Why what feels like chemistry might actually be your nervous system recognizing a familiar pattern of emotional chaos</li><li>The self-abandonment loop Pi identified that kept her stuck, and the moment she saw herself inside it</li><li>A three-phase process for moving from understanding your patterns to actually showing up differently in love</li><li>What it feels like when healthy love enters your life after years of emotional unavailability, and why it might not feel the way you expect<p><br></p></li></ul><p>🎧 If you&#39;ve ever thought &quot;I know better, so why do I keep doing this?” this one&#39;s for you. Listen now.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Pi Venus Winslow’s Free gift to listeners: </strong>Identify your pattern underneath your attraction, especially if you keep finding yourself drawn to emotionally unavailable or inconsistent partners with Pi Venus Winslow&#39;s free quiz: &quot;Uncover Your Hidden Barriers.&quot; <a href="https://fullvenusrising.com/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://fullvenusrising.com/</a></p><p><br></p><p>You can&#39;t make Mr. Unavailable love you, but you can choose someone who does. Love is closer than you think.</p>