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051. I stopped chasing goals, and started building systems (and it helped pull me out of burnout)

051. I stopped chasing goals, and started building systems (and it helped pull me out of burnout)26 Jun17 min

<p>There&#39;s a line in Atomic Habits that completely rewired how I run my life: &quot;You don&#39;t rise to the level of your goals — you fall to the level of your systems.&quot; </p><p><br></p><p>For years, I was the ultimate goal-getter. Big goals, relentless hustle, checking things off. And it worked — on paper. But I was burnt out, exhausted, and stuck on a never-ending treadmill of &quot;what&#39;s next?&quot; </p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, I&#39;m sharing the shift that pulled me out of burnout: why I stopped chasing goals and started building systems instead. </p><p>What I cover:</p><ul><li>The difference between goals and systems</li><li>Destination happiness and hedonic adaptation (why achieving goals doesn&#39;t make you happy for long)</li><li>The question that changed everything: &quot;What do I want my life to FEEL like on a regular Thursday?&quot;</li><li>My actual systems: home operating system, morning routine, weekly planning, Finance Friday</li><li>A simple formula to build your own systems (one annoyance at a time) </li></ul><p><br></p><p>If you&#39;ve been working 24/7 and still feel like you&#39;re falling behind, this one&#39;s for you.</p><p><br></p><p>Connect with me:</p><p>instagram.com/angelicamarier</p><p>youtube.com/@the_angelicamarie</p>