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Even Sexperts Struggle with Intimacy in Motherhood

Even Sexperts Struggle with Intimacy in Motherhood8 Jul41 min

As curator of the Museum of Sex, Sarah Forbes was an expert on kinks and turn-ons. But motherhood taught her that sex is more complicated than attraction — and that something as unsexy as her partner changing a blowout diaper could get her in the mood.

Recommendations from the archive

Check out our sex + parenthood series, which includes:

• The Parents’ Guide to Doing It with Jane Marie and Dan Savage

• The Parents’ Guide to Doing It with Dr. Hilda Hutchinson and Twanna Hines

• The Parents’ Guide to Doing It with Esther Perel

More about Sarah Forbes

• Sarah’s website: curatorforbes.com

• Sarah’s book: Mama Sex