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169. Love, Loss & Two Sticks of Butter | Julie Seyler
<p>What do heartbreak, 30 years of dating, and two sticks of butter have in common? <a href="https://www.instagram.com/twobittart/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer"><strong>Julie Seyler</strong></a><strong>.</strong></p><p><a href="https://twobittart.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Julie</a> joins <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@thenotsobad" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Joshua Jones</a> for a funny, honest conversation about dating, heartbreak, being single at 59, and what happens when you stop chasing the life you were told you were supposed to want. From ignored red flags to questionable romantic decisions, Julie proves that sometimes the best <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Gluten-Punishment-Desserts-Heartbroken-Lovesick/dp/B0F89NM9T3/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2702UBIB5XTOI&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.5-vnFSB5PQvUBt6c7vcmRQ.TM3TcFOenFprsTIc3NFh_2rL2ce5OG53X8NmqjAvb1E&dib_tag=se&keywords=gluten+for+punishment+julie+seyler&qid=1786026175&sprefix=gluten+for+puni%2Caps%2C184&sr=8-1" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">stories</a> come from the relationships that didn't work out.</p><p><strong>In this episode, we get into:</strong></p><ul><li>The biggest dating lies women tell themselves</li><li>How many red flags Julie ignored for the "storybook ending"</li><li><strong>Heartbreak at 25 vs. heartbreak at 55</strong></li><li>Whether being single feels freeing, lonely, or a little bit of both</li><li>Why chemistry and compatibility aren't the same thing</li><li>What dating apps hide beneath the surface</li><li>What 30 years of dating taught Julie that relationships never could</li><li>How heartbreak became a memoir—and somehow involved <a href="https://twobittart.com/gluten-for-punishment-by-julie-seyler/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer"><strong>40 dessert recipes</strong></a></li></ul><p>Because sometimes healing requires perspective.</p><p>And sometimes it requires <strong>two sticks of butter.</strong></p><p><strong>Listen now—and tell us: what's the biggest lesson dating ever taught you?</strong></p><p></p>