Joel & Mary Beeke: Why Strong Marriages Start with Loving God First

Joel and Mary Beeke have spent decades studying, teaching, and living what the Bible says about marriage.

In this conversation we explore the biblical foundation of a strong marriage, why many couples slowly drift apart, and how Scripture provides a model for love, respect, friendship, and lifelong commitment.

Joel Beeke is a pastor, theologian, and author of more than 100 books. Mary Beeke is a teacher, writer, and longtime pastor’s wife who has helped generations of women and families cultivate strong Christian homes.

Together they wrote How to Build a Godly Marriage: 12 Principles for Flourishing and Lasting.

We discuss the biblical pattern of marriage found in Ephesians 5, the Puritan vision of joyful family life, and why holiness — not emotional intensity — is the true foundation of lasting happiness.

If you want to build a strong Christian marriage, lead your household well, and recover the deeper wisdom of the Christian tradition, this conversation offers practical guidance and time-tested insight.

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TOPICS DISCUSSEDThe biblical foundation of marriageWhy couples slowly drift apartSacrificial love and respect in marriageThe Puritan vision of joyful marriageWhy holiness produces happinessThe importance of kindness and encouragementBuilding trust and unity in marriageRaising children with responsibility and faith

GUEST LINKSHow to Build a Godly Marriage: 12 Principles for Flourishing and Lasting

Joel Beeke

Puritan Reformed Theological Seminary — https://prts.eduReformation Heritage Books — https://heritagebooks.org