Low Libido Or Something Deeper?

Low desire can look like a bedroom problem, but it often starts as a nervous system and connection problem. We’re Michael and Amy, couple’s connection coaches, and we keep seeing the same pattern: one partner reaches for sex to feel loved, the other feels pressured and shuts down, and suddenly both people feel ashamed, guilty, and miles apart. We pull apart the “low libido” label and talk about what sits underneath it, including stress and disconnection from the body, the mental load many wo...