Stop Living a B+ Life: How to Find the Life You Actually Want | Suzy Welch

<p>Thank you to <strong>OneSkin</strong> for sponsoring this video. Get <strong>15% off OneSkin</strong> with the code <strong>TIGERSISTERS</strong> at <a href="https://www.oneskin.co/TIGERSISTERS" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.oneskin.co/TIGERSISTERS</a> #oneskinpod</p><p><br /></p><p>Check out our matcha brand, Sisters Matcha at <a href="http://www.sistersmatcha.com" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">www.sistersmatcha.com</a> </p><p><br /></p><p>Sign up for our newsletter here: <a href="https://cherieluo.substack.com/subscribe?utm_source=menu&amp;simple=true&amp;next=https%3A%2F%2Fcherieluo.substack.com%2Fabout" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://cherieluo.substack.com/subscribe</a></p><p><br /></p><p>What if the reason you're stuck in life isn't a lack of talent, ambition, or opportunity, but the fact that you've been living someone else's definition of success?</p><p>In this Director's Cut episode, we're revisiting one of our more impactful conversations with Dr. Suzy Welch, a bestselling author, NYU professor, and creator of the Values Bridge framework (link below). </p><p><br /></p><p>Tune in for lessons on:</p><p>✅ How to identify your core values and spot your "authenticity gap"</p><p>✅ Why so many people end up living someone else's version of success</p><p>✅ The surprising role values play in relationships, dating, and compatibility</p><p>✅ How to know if you're settling in your career or personal life</p><p>✅ The framework Suzy uses to make better financial decisions</p><p>✅ The power of cutting your losses and avoiding the sunk-cost fallacy</p><p>✅ Why there is no such thing as a "last best deal"</p><p>✅ The wisdom Suzy gained from grief, resilience, and starting over</p><p><br /></p><p>Whether you're questioning your career path, rebuilding after a setback, or simply trying to understand yourself better, this episode will leave you with powerful questions and action items to apply right away.</p><p><br /></p><p>Follow Suzy @suzywelch and check out The Values Bridge at <a href="https://thevaluesbridge.com/" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://thevaluesbridge.com/</a> </p><p><br /></p><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><p>00:51: Introduction </p><p>01:47: How to watch this episode</p><p>04:50: Introducing Dr. Suzy Welch</p><p>06:35: 3 main data sets of Suzy’s ‘Becoming You’ class</p><p>07:20: Calculating your authenticity gap</p><p>08:12: Suzy analyzes Cherie and Jean’s core values</p><p>11:50: Breaking down the “eudemonia” value </p><p>17:40: Analyzing Jean’s top value (“beholderism”)</p><p>24:29: Analyzing the “belovedness” value</p><p>29:34: The 4 things that destroy you living your own life</p><p>35:20: How to know if you’re living a B+ Life</p><p>39:20: The meaning of “balance” for each person </p><p>43:00: Suzy’s top 2 pieces of money advice </p><p>48:30: How Suzy balanced working with her partner </p><p>53:36: Suzy’s re-entrance to the dating scene</p><p>59:00: Reinventing yourself as the world reinvents</p><p>1:02:51: Jean and Cherie look back on Suzy’s frameworks</p><p>1:05:30: Cherie’s biggest takeaway (“who’s life did I just live?”)</p><p>1:09:24: Jean’s biggest takeaway on beholderism </p><p>1:16:27: Taking the Values Bridge each year </p><p>1:18:40: Fostering an abundance mindset</p><p>1:21:30: The importance of cutting your losses</p><p>1:24:14: Cherie’s mantra of DILMO</p><p>1:25:18: Closing thoughts</p><p>🐯👯‍♀️ We’re the Tiger Sisters — your Wall Street &amp; Silicon Valley big sisters Decoding Money • Power • Love</p><p><br /></p><p>✨ New episodes every Monday | Shorts all week ✨</p><p><br /></p><p>💌 Want to partner with us? </p><p>Sponsorships: partnerships@tigersisters.co</p><p><br /></p><p><strong>Why trust us?</strong></p><p>▫️ Cherie Brooke Luo — 100M+ views demystifying tech, finance &amp; MBAs</p><p>▫️ Jean Luo — ex-Goldman Sachs, ex-Snapchat exec, 50+ AI patents, startup investor</p><p>▫️ Together: 4 Ivy League d