Under the Hood

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Episode 36: The Blame Game - Moving from Finger-Pointing to Connection

Episode 36: The Blame Game - Moving from Finger-Pointing to Connection14 Jul23 min

Humans are wired to make meaning out of what happens to us, so when something feels bad, we go looking for a reason (in an effort to avoid it next time). In relationships, that search often turns into blame…which devolves into criticism instead of the actual result we're hoping for. In this episode, Dr. Rebecca Howard Eudy (relationship & sex therapist) and Dr. Alex DiGrado (pelvic floor physical therapist) explain why blame and anger are usually secondary emotions covering something else...