
← Your Parent Coach by Mel White17 Feb · 41 min
Preparing Kids for Grief: Why Avoidance Does More Harm Than Good with Dr Kimberly Rich
<p>In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Kimberly Rich — a grief educator, death doula, end-of-life companion, and founder of Tomorrow Mourning. After the sudden loss of her mother in 2021, Kim dedicated her work to changing how we approach death, dying, and grief, with a strong focus on supporting children and families through loss.</p><p>We talk about why grief is a guaranteed part of life — and yet something we rarely prepare children (or adults) for. Kim shares why children often have a greater capacity to talk about grief than we give them credit for, and how avoiding the topic can actually create more fear and confusion.</p><p>This conversation explores the many forms grief can take — not just death, but also pet loss, divorce, moves, identity changes, and even parenting transitions. We dive into practical ways parents can support grieving children, especially when a pet dies, including how to model grief, invite (but not force) participation in rituals, and create space for kids to remember and share.</p><p>We also discuss the power of community in grief — why showing up matters long after the first few weeks, how to identify “safe people” for both parents and children, and why grief doesn’t need fixing — it needs witnessing.</p><p>This is an honest, gentle, and deeply human conversation that I truly believe every parent needs — not just when grief arrives, but long before it does.</p><p>You can connect with Dr. Kimberly Rich on Instagram at <strong>@tomorrowmourningllc</strong> or visit her work at <a href="https://www.tomorrowmourningllc.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer"><strong>Tomorrow Mourning</strong>.</a></p><p>If this episode resonated, I encourage you to listen with your child, or use it as a starting point for a conversation you may have been avoiding.</p><p>🇦🇺 Australia – Support Lines</p><p><strong>Kids Helpline</strong><br>📞 1800 55 1800<br>💬 Webchat & email available<br>👧🧒 Ages 5–25<br>🕒 24/7<br>Support for young people experiencing grief, loss, or emotional distress.<br>🔗 kidshelpline.com.au</p><p><strong>Lifeline Australia</strong><br>📞 13 11 14<br>💬 Online chat available<br>🕒 24/7<br>Support for adults, including parents navigating grief or supporting a grieving child.<br>🔗 lifeline.org.au</p><p><strong>Beyond Blue</strong><br>📞 1300 22 4636<br>💬 Webchat available<br>🕒 24/7<br>Support for anxiety, depression, and grief for adults and parents.<br>🔗 beyondblue.org.au</p><p><strong>Headspace</strong><br>👧🧒 Ages 12–25<br>💬 Online & in-centre support<br>Mental health support for young people, including grief and loss.<br>🔗 headspace.org.au</p><p><br></p><p>🇺🇸 United States – Support Lines</p><p><br></p><p><strong>988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline</strong><br>📞 Call or text <strong>988</strong><br>💬 Chat available<br>🕒 24/7<br>Support for anyone in emotional distress, including grief and loss.<br>🔗 988lifeline.org</p><p><strong>Crisis Text Line</strong><br>📱 Text <strong>HOME</strong> to <strong>741741</strong><br>🕒 24/7<br>Text-based support for teens and adults experiencing grief, overwhelm, or crisis.<br>🔗 crisistextline.org</p><p><strong>The Dougy Center</strong><br>👧🧒 Support for children, teens, and families grieving a death<br>Resources, groups, and education (not a crisis line, but excellent grief support).<br>🔗 dougy.org</p><p><strong>National Alliance for Children’s Grief (NACG)</strong><br>Resources for parents supporting grieving children.<br>🔗 childrensgrief.org</p>