How to Love People Without Losing Yourself

Send us Fan Mail I've been meditating on charity in Divine Intimacy, and meditation #269, "Charity Adapts Itself to Everyone," stopped me in my tracks. We're supposed to adapt ourselves to other people. We're supposed to love our neighbor. We're supposed to put aside our own preferences for the good of others. But what happens when you've spent much of your life adapting yourself to people because you're afraid of how they'll react to you? That's the question I'm wrestling w...