What Do I Do if I Don't Feel "in love" With My Spouse Anymore? |Ep. 749

What do you do when the butterflies are gone and you no longer feel "in love" with your spouse?

If you've ever wondered whether fading feelings mean something is wrong with your marriage, you're not alone. In this honest and hope-filled solo episode, Dr. Kim unpacks why romantic feelings naturally change over time, the difference between love as a feeling and love as a choice, and how couples can begin finding their way back to one another.

You'll discover why emotional disconnection often happens gradually, how small intentional steps can reignite closeness, and why God isn't finished writing your marriage story. If your relationship feels distant, this episode offers practical encouragement and biblical hope for rebuilding connection—one choice at a time.

Episode Takeaways:

Why fading feelings don't have to mean your marriage is failing.

The difference between love as a feeling and love as a daily choice.

Practical steps to rebuild emotional connection and find your way back to each other.

Quotes from This Episode:

Dr. Kim Kimberling "Feelings are real. They matter. But they are information—not truth."

"Don't let a fading feeling become a verdict on your marriage before you've figured out what it's trying to tell you."

"The problem isn't that feelings change. The problem is believing that anything quieter than early romance means something is wrong."

"Early love is about discovery and excitement. Mature love is about depth, history, and a knowing that only time can build."