How Do You Tell a Partner You're Into Kink?

The hardest part of kink is almost never the kink. It is the sentence you would have to say to someone you love. This is the question people ask least and want answered most: how do you actually raise this with a partner? We go through why the fear is nearly always "they will think I am broken" rather than "they will say no", why the timing decides the outcome more than the wording does, and what to do when the answer is a pause rather than a yes. In this episode: • Why the three most common ...