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When an 11-Year-Old Chooses Which Parent to Live With: A Mediator's Story of Loss & Return
When an 11-Year-Old Chooses Which Parent to Live With: A Mediator's Story of Loss & Return
🎯 "I thought my world had collapsed." When Katy Harris separated, a court order followed her 11-year-old son's wishes: he would live with his dad, while his older and younger brothers stayed with her. Within months, contact had stopped. Then came the part no court ever sees. In this deeply honest conversation, Lisa talks with Katy and her colleague Lucy, two UK family mediators on opposite ends of the custody spectrum. Katy is the mom whose middle son walked away. Lucy is the stepmom whose ...