7 Emotional Safety Examples: How to Establish Emotional Safety in Marriage

Do you feel anxious, confused, or unsafe in your marriage, but you can’t quite explain why? These 7 emotional safety examples can help you find clarity when your husband’s words sound loving, but his actions leave you feeling betrayed.

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7 EMOTIONAL SAFETY EXAMPLES

In this article you’ll see the following emotional safety examples:

7 Practical examples of emotional safety issues.

Identifying his behaviors that threaten your emotionally safety.

Realizing that your reactions to his emotional abuse are “normal.”

What getting the right information means for your emotional safety.

Honoring your needs and boundaries is essential as you decide next steps.

1. IF HIS ACTIONS DON’T MATCH HIS WORDS, TRUST WHAT YOU SEE

How it Sounds: “I love you and I’d never do anything to hurt you or our family.”

His promises could sound comforting, but his patterns are evidence that shows who he really is. If you find yourself assessing his mood or, rehearsing conversations afterwards to figure out what went wrong. Or realize the same issues never get resolved no matter how carefully you explain them, start trusting what you can see and feel.