"Your Parents Were Children Too" Has Been Weaponized

We have the cure for estrangement: just see your parents as children too. Easy. Case closed. [Read: sarcasm] In this episode, Whitney traces where this sometimes helpful and sometimes very unhelpful idea came from and shows how something genuinely useful got turned into a permanent exit ramp from accountability.

In this episode, you'll learn:

- How "your parents were children too" worked its way into self-help

- Why unfinished business has to move upward or outward, never down to your own children

- What defensiveness in a parent is usually protecting

Whitney Goodman is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and the founder of Calling Home, a membership community that helps people navigate complex family dynamics and break harmful cycles.

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