Stuck Lost Confused Ick

Daily Boost Podcast

Stuck Lost Confused Ick

September 7, 2026 | Episode 5536

Host: Scott Smith

Episode Description

It's Labor Day, and I woke up thinking about a conversation I have almost every single day of my life.

A young man crossed the gym floor last week to thank me, then told me about a decision he can't make. Two good options. No way to choose. If you've ever stalled out in front of a choice like that, you know the feeling. Stuck, lost, confused, ick.

I'm not handing you a blueprint today. I'm going to show you why you don't have one yet, and the one move that changes it. Listen.

Featured Story

I was walking out of the gym when a young man came across the floor and asked if I was Scott Smith. We'd talked in the sauna months earlier, and he wanted to say thanks. He's a military officer in his final semester, choosing between infantry and aviation, walking and listening and projecting twenty years forward, trying to settle it. I could hear his answer in his voice before he could. So I asked the question I get paid good money to ask. Have you ever flown an airplane? Nope. Just a simulator. I told him he has no idea whether he wants it.

Important Points

* When you keep delaying a decision, it isn't laziness. You haven't decided what the thing is supposed to be yet.