S3E350 – Esther 1-5: Respect

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Executive Producer

Andy Gardner

Podcast Introduction

This is History Tuesday, and we’ll read the first half of Esther…chapters 1-5.  I’m calling today’s episode “Respect” (Respict? 😂).

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Comments on Esther 1

In chapter one, out of pride, Ahasuerus held two different banquets. First there was a six month long banquet for all of his officials and servants. He was ruler of the largest empire in the world, and he wanted to show off. In all likelihood, this lavish celebration was paid for from the taxes he collected. The second banquet was for all the residents of the capital city, Shushan. This celebration was much more modest, lasting only seven days. Drink was abundant at both banquets, but at the second, it was not compulsory.

Ahasuerus’ wife, Queen Vashti also held a banquet for the women at the palace.

On the seventh day of the second banquet, Ahasuerus was drunk, and he ordered that Vashti should come to him at the banquet, because he wanted to display her beauty. Commentators believe that it is implied that the king wanted her to appear without her clothes, which is the reason she refused to go. In his drunken condition, the king became enraged, and he asked his advisors what he should do in response to this insubordination. They said he should remove her as queen because she was a bad example to all the other women in the kingdom. Find a replacement, they said, or wives everywhere will disrespect their husbands.

In Ephesians 5, Paul says that wives should respect their husbands. I’m going to go out on a limb and say that I agree with Paul. Respect is the greatest gift a wife can give to her husband. However, a husband cannot demand respect. Well, that is not entirely true, though, is it? A husband can demand respect, and many husbands have cruel ways to do so. But respect given as a result of mistreatment is not true respect.

Let’s look at what exactly Paul said there in Ephesians. It’s in verse 33 of chapter five: “…each one of you is to love his wife as himself, and the wife is to respect her husband.” So that brings a bit more perspective into the equation, doesn’t it? Earlier in the chapter, in verse 25, Paul made it even more clear: “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself for her…” That really drives it home. A husband that loves his wife just a Christ loved the church will, in almost every case, be rewarded with respect and love from