Is It Really About Pegging? #788

<p>Frank sexual discussion ahead — this one's for grown-ups.</p>

<p>A listener calls in curious about pegging. He found it through porn, and he's terrified to say any of it out loud to his wife.</p>

<p>Corey and Pam use his voicemail as the door into a bigger conversation than one sex act. The source of a desire doesn't determine whether it's legitimate. And the real question isn't whether pegging is okay, it's whether he's willing to be known.</p>

<p>It ends up where their conversations usually end up. This was never about the act. It's about the risk of being fully known by your spouse, and what a marriage quietly becomes when one person decides that risk isn't worth taking.</p>

<p>A line worth pulling:</p>

<p>"We think we can hide things. We think we can keep things under wraps. But in reality, it's usually felt in some subtle, pointing-towards way, all the way up to: there's really a disconnect."</p>

<p>In the extended content: What does it take for someone to Go First with sharing something vulnerable?</p>

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