
← Sh*ts F*cked24 may · 1 h 05 min
The Hidden Reality of Mums in Addiction | with Karen from Luma
<p><strong>If you're a mum who's ever reached for a drink just to get through the witching hour... this one's for you.</strong></p><p><strong>And if you've ever judged a mother in addiction, this one's for you too.</strong></p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, Paris sits down with <strong>Karen</strong>, senior counsellor and AOD programs officer at Luma; one of the largest and longest-running women's health services in Australia. </p><p>Karen brings her own lived experience as the daughter of an alcoholic, the sister of drug addicts, and a mother who suffered severe postnatal depression in silence for years. She's also one of the most refreshingly straight-talking people in the sector.</p><p>Together they get into the reality of motherhood and addiction; the shame that keeps women from asking for help, the mum wine culture nobody wants to call out, what actually happens when a pregnant woman is still using, and why the question is never "don't you love your children enough to stop?"</p><p><br></p><p><strong>What you'll hear in this episode:</strong></p><ul><li>Why mothers are held to a standard that's genuinely inhumane, and how that drives addiction underground</li><li>The truth about mum wine culture and when "it's not a problem until it's a problem" becomes a problem</li><li>What really happens when a pregnant woman is still using, and why fear of Department of Children Protection stops women getting help</li><li>The Wanda's Clinic at King Edward Hospital; a program Karen describes as unlike anything she's ever seen</li><li>Why shame thrives in secrecy and why shaming people never creates lasting change</li><li>Karen's own postnatal depression experience, and what it cost her to stay silent</li><li>Why it's never a choice between the substance and the child</li><li>The one thing Karen wishes the public understood about mothers in addiction</li></ul><p>If you've ever felt like you're holding the weight of the world together while falling apart silently... this one's for you.</p><p><strong>About Karen</strong></p><p>Karen is a senior counsellor and alcohol and other drugs programs officer at <a href="https://luma.org.au/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Luma</a> in Perth, Western Australia. She brings her own lived experience as the daughter of an alcoholic and sister of drug addicts alongside a master's degree in counselling and six years of frontline work supporting women and families navigating addiction and recovery. She runs drop-in groups, one-on-one counselling, and the beloved Coffee Talk, a weekly Monday morning Facebook Live on the <a href="https://www.facebook.com/womensrecoverycommunity" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Women's Recovery Community page</a>.</p><p>Website: <a href="http://www.chameleonrecovery.com.au">luma.org.au</a> | Email: support@luma.org.au | Phone: (08) 6330 5400</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Thank you to our Season 4 sponsors:</strong></p><p><a href="https://coachcarly.com/">Coach Carly</a> – Life & mindset coaching | <a href="https://www.elevatebeyondco.com.au">Elevate Beyond Co.</a> – Disability support services | <a href="https://www.yourrecovery.au">Your Recovery</a> – Addiction recovery support</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Thank you to our Production Team: </strong></p><p>Video/Audio Editing: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nevverlandstudios/">Nevverland Studio</a> | VA - <a href="https://www.lynebon.com/">Lyn Ebon</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Australia Wide Directory of Services: </strong></p><p><strong></strong><a href="https://www.myservices.org.au/">https://www.myservices.org.au/</a><strong></strong></p><p><strong>Western Australian AOD Services: </strong></p><p><strong></strong><a href="https://wanada.org.au/greenbook/">https://wanada.org.au/greenbook/</a></p><p><br></p><p>National Alcohol and Other Drug Hotline: 1800 250 015</p><p>Lifeline: 13 11 14 |