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133. Dance of Attachment: Disorganized Attachment and the Pendulum Swing Dance
133. Dance of Attachment: Disorganized Attachment and the Pendulum Swing Dance
Ever felt like you're two completely different people in love, desperately chasing someone one day and drafting the goodbye text the next? In this episode of the Speak Honest Podcast, Jenn Noble breaks down Disorganized Attachment, the third stance in the August series on the four Attachment Stances. She calls it the Pendulum Swing Dance because it holds both the fear of abandonment and the fear of engulfment at the exact same time, which means there's no single direction to run in when the t...