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You Hit $5M, Then $10M. Why It Never Feels Like Enough (& What Actually Does)
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Tommy Mello does $410 million a year and admits he is still chasing the next thing. Tal Ben-Shahar taught the most popular course in Harvard's history, built the world's first master's and PhD in happiness studies, and won Israel's national squash title at 16 only to feel nothing three hours later. Together they break down the arrival fallacy that runs every entrepreneur, why happier companies post better margins, the SPIRE model, minimum viable interventions you can do in 60 seconds, why New Year's resolutions die by January 17, the phone-in-a-box rule, the accountability buddy that raises follow-through by 200 percent, the good enough life, and what it means to give yourself permission to be human.
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00:00 - Introduction
01:27 - The unhappiness that started 30 years of research
03:23 - National champion at 16, satisfied for three hours
05:40 - What is the arrival fallacy?
06:30 - Unhappy versus depressed and quiet desperation
08:11 - Enough is never enough and the $3 billion regret
09:38 - Two schools of thought and turning goal theory on its head
13:43 - SPIRE: the five elements of wellbeing