How to Choose the Right Person—Before Chemistry Clouds Your Judgment (Ep 118)

How do you know if you're choosing the RIGHT person—or simply choosing someone who fits the picture you've created for your life?

Marriage. Children. Security. Being chosen. Getting off the dating apps. Finally having the family you've imagined.

Those are things you may genuinely want.

But wanting marriage and wanting a particular person are two different decisions.

In this episode of The Secret Formula of Femininity, licensed psychologist Dr. Nicole Monteiro breaks down how to choose a life partner using her 5 C's of Choosing Well:

❤️ Character

❤️ Compatibility

❤️ Conflict

❤️ Capacity

❤️ Chemistry

And yes—chemistry is LAST for a reason. 👀

This episode was inspired in part by my recent conversation with Jackie Langworthy, who reflected on realizing that she may have loved what her marriage represented more than she deeply loved the relationship itself.