
← To My Sisters20 sept · 58 min
You've Been Sold A Lie About 'Soft Life' ft. Toni Tone (Part 1)
What does it actually take to build a soft life? This week, we’re joined by author and internet big sister Toni Tone for an honest conversation about creating abundance, peace and fulfilment on your own terms. We unpack why a soft life is about far more than money and luxury, the pressure women feel to hit arbitrary timelines, learning to rest without guilt, having the courage to be disliked, setting stronger boundaries, and building happiness that doesn’t depend on a relationship. Plus, Toni weighs in on a sister’s dilemma about cheating, second chances and whether you should stay for someone’s “potential.” If you’ve been craving a life that feels as good as it looks, this episode is for you.
👉🏾 Grab your copy of Toni Tone's new book 'Soft Life' here: https://amzn.eu/d/0drf4pcf
00:00 The truth about the “soft life”
05:30 Dilemma: He cheated — should she take him back?
16:30 Toni Tone on redefining the soft life
22:03 Why ambitious women struggle to rest
27:21 Marriage by 30? The danger of arbitrary timelines
34:07 Boundaries, standards & the courage to be disliked
39:47 How to build a soft life that doesn’t depend on a man
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