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Feeling Overwhelmed? 4 Ways to Figure Out What You Actually Need
<p><strong>Episode 50: Feeling Overwhelmed? 4 Ways to Figure Out What You Actually Need</strong></p><p>When you feel overwhelmed, what do you usually do?</p><p>Maybe you procrastinate.</p><p>Scroll your phone.</p><p>Start five things and finish none of them. Hyper-focus on one tiny detail.</p><p>Or shut down completely because you have absolutely no idea where to begin.</p><p>But what if overwhelm isn’t the problem?</p><p>What if it’s actually trying to tell you something?</p><p>In this episode of <em>All The Feels</em>, Lauren continues her five-part emotions deep dive with <strong>overwhelm</strong> and explores why not every experience of overwhelm needs the same response.</p><p>Sometimes you genuinely have <strong>too much on your plate</strong>, and something needs to change or you need more support.</p><p>Sometimes you need <strong>one tiny starting place</strong> to help you move forward.</p><p>Sometimes overwhelm has become tangled up with fear, frustration, self-doubt, anxiety, disappointment, or other emotions that need their own attention.</p><p>And sometimes overwhelm may actually be <strong>covering up another emotion or truth</strong> that feels harder to face.</p><p>Instead of trying to bulldoze through overwhelm, Lauren invites you to slow down, get curious, and figure out which kind of overwhelm you’re experiencing, and what it might actually be asking of you.</p><p><strong>In This Episode, Lauren Explores:</strong></p><ul><li>Why overwhelm isn’t a character flaw or proof that you’re incapable</li><li>How procrastination, distraction, and shutting down can be attempts to find relief from overwhelm</li><li><strong>Four different ways to understand what your overwhelm may be asking for</strong></li><li>Why sometimes there genuinely <strong>is too much</strong> and the answer is to reduce the load, change expectations, ask for help, or bring in reinforcements</li><li>How changing capacity may require changing your expectations</li><li>How to recognize when you don’t need to do less—you simply need <strong>one tiny starting place</strong></li><li>Why you don’t need to figure out the entire project before you can begin</li><li>How Lauren used the “one tiny starting place” approach to build her first coaching program</li><li>What <strong>emotional overwhelm</strong> looks like when fear, frustration, anxiety, self-doubt, disappointment, and other emotions get tangled together</li><li>How separating an emotional “swirl” can help you understand wh