The Memory Board Test: Creating a Life Worth Remembering

If someone made a photo board of my life today, would I like the story those pictures tell?That was the question that hit me after a friend’s story about funeral photos got me thinking about the memories we’re capturing—and the lives we’re actually living. In this episode, I invite you to sit with me and take what I call the "Memory Board Test." Instead of aiming for perfect Instagram posts, I want us to focus on the small, authentic moments that truly define our lives.

I share why I believe our legacy isn’t built on big milestones alone, but on countless ordinary days—a spontaneous kitchen dance, a heartfelt conversation, or that laugh-until-you-cry dinner with friends. I’m challenging you, as I challenge myself, to make sure we’re not just waiting for the “right” time but living intentionally, building a collection of real, meaningful memories.

What You’ll Hear In This EpisodeThe story that started it all: I recount a conversation about funeral photos and how it made me see our camera rolls in a new light (00:09–00:48).My personal connection to photography: I talk about why freezing moments on film means so much to me, and what I learned as a scrapbooker and photographer (02:04).Introducing the Memory Board Test: I explain how I came up with this test, and why I think everyone should try it—no doom or gloom, just motivation to live more fully now (03:44).The importance of the little things: I reflect on how life’s epic moments are so often found in the tiniest experiences—road trips, sunsets, ordinary Tuesdays (04:53–05:17).Why I stopped using the term 'bucket list': I share why I believe in creating a 'dream list' instead, focusing on what brings us to life right now, not just before it’s too late (06:18–06:41).My ongoing challenge to myself (and you!): I walk you through my memory making challenge and invite you to join—one intentional, memory-board-worthy moment each month, just for you, not for social media (07:44–08:56).

My Key TakeawaysI’m building my legacy every single day, one photo at a time—whether I realize it or not (06:50).It’s the small, ordinary moments that often carry the most meaning in the end (05:01).It matters that I choose to show up and be present, so my life tells a story I love (09:13).“Epic” isn’t about having my name on a building or in history books—it’s about loving, connecting, taking risks, and being fully alive right where I am (09:13–09:46).With every new day, I can change my story and become more intentional in the way